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Frank Massa posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
I knew of Vera through my friendship with her brother Norwood. Great memories with Woody and my Condolences to the family. Frank Massa Columbia Class of 74
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Conni Ferraro Connan posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
I knew Vera many years ago. I knew her as Jamie and we both worked as library pages at the Maplewood Memorial Library. She was always full of laughter. Prayers for her family, glad to hear of the love filled life she had.
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Maryanne Carrsgher posted a condolence
Monday, September 7, 2026
I am sorry I came late to this posting…
Vera was a wonderfully gifted person. I had the opportunity to work with her at The JFK/RWJI Pediatrics outpatient department in Edison,NJ.
in 1986-87. I transferred from the adult rehab center to Pediatrics. Really not having any experience working with children as a Physical Therapist. I recall Vera being so kind and giving of information that helped me feel better about the move.
I found out she grew up in Maplewood where I had 2 very good friends grow up as well. Go to find she played CYO Basket with my friend Marie Kardys and was coached by my other friend’s mother Margo Miko. What a small world!
I got married and moved to Maplewood and lived on Franklin Ave. That ended on the street Vera lived on…. I would pass her childhood home and think of her.We had a brief connection but I always remember her as a very special, kind and giving person ….. kids just loved her!
God Bless her and her family.May he hold her in the palm of his hand.
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Sabrina Androvett, from Progressive Steps planted a tree in memory of Vera Hickson Upshaw
Wednesday, August 12, 2026
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Mary Krupp posted a condolence
Monday, August 10, 2026
It is difficult to put into words what Vera meant to all of us at Progressive Steps. For nearly 25 years, I had the privilege of knowing and working with her, and I can truly say that she was one of the most remarkable people I have ever known.
Vera was an exceptional Occupational Therapist. She had an incredible dedication to the children and families she served, and the difference she made in their lives cannot be measured. But as wonderful as Vera was professionally, it was the person she was that made her so incredibly special.
Vera was kind, caring, compassionate, generous, and always willing to help anyone who needed her. She treated everyone with kindness and respect, and she was someone you could always count on. No matter what was needed, Vera was willing to help, never looking for recognition or expecting anything in return. That was simply who she was.
Her colleagues thought the world of her. They valued her knowledge and experience, but even more than that, they valued Vera. People genuinely enjoyed working with her and being part of her team because she made everyone around her feel supported and appreciated. In nearly 25 years, I cannot remember Vera ever speaking poorly of another person, and I cannot recall anyone ever having anything but wonderful things to say about her. I think that says everything about the way she lived her life and the way she treated people.
Vera was one of those rare people who quietly made a difference everywhere she went. She made Progressive Steps better simply by being part of it, and I know that I am a better person for having known her. I feel incredibly fortunate that our paths crossed and that I had the privilege of having Vera as part of the Progressive Steps family for so many years.
Vera, you were truly one of a kind. You touched more lives than you probably ever realized, and the impact you made will remain long after your passing. You will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and never forgotten.
My heart goes out to your family and to everyone who had the privilege of knowing and loving you.
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Zoila Cruz-Salter posted a condolence
Monday, August 10, 2026
Dear Hickson and Upshaw Family,
My dear condolences to you. I did not know Vera Ann personally, but I know the pain that comes from losing a beloved dear family member. May you and the entire family find comfort from the scriptures knowing that Vera is no longer in pain and that she is in God's memory. He gives us comfort and hope of seeing our loved ones again in the resurrection. (2 Corinthians 1:2-4; Romans 15:4; Acts 24:15)
Sincerely,
Zoila Salter
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Audrey Hickson posted a condolence
Sunday, August 9, 2026
The family of late Perry (Louise) Hickson, brother of the late Norwood (Rosa Etta) Hickson, extends our deepest condolences, love, and heartfelt sympathy to cousin Vera husband Ross Upshaw, her daughter MacKenzie, and brother Norwood "woody" Hickson Jr. We join in prayer with the family, the Bethany Baptist Church family, friends ,and community in the transition of our beloved cousin Vern Ann. I apologize for not being with you at time. Just know my love and prayers are with you all. We are grateful to God for her beautiful life of love, and kindness that she shared with children her church, and so many others. Vern smile and tremendous love for people will be etched in the memories of those she loved and those who loved her. To God be the glory.
Lovingly,
Audrey Ann Hickson, cousin
509 East Main Street
Timmonsville, South Carolina 29161
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john a scalera posted a condolence
Sunday, August 9, 2026
Frog = Frequently Relies On God. Very sorry for your loss Woody and family.
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Monday, August 10, 2026
Bethany Baptist Church
275 W Market St
Newark, New Jersey, United States
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10
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Celebration Of Life
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Monday, August 10, 2026
Bethany Baptist Church
275 W Market St
Newark, New Jersey, United States
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Entombment
11:30 am
Tuesday, August 11, 2026
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